I somehow did not know you lived in Rochester–I lived there for several years while I was teaching at RIT. Very under-rated city–really liked it there and the surrounding little towns and drives are nice too. Never got tired of the Eastman House and had some nice coffee places to hang out too.
@Baelnor the most important thing to know about Niagara Falls is to stay on the Canadian side. The US side is pointless and sort of seedy. The Canadian side is beautiful, clean, and has other attractions aside from the Falls themselves.
I have never been to Disney anything, not as a kid (we didn’t have the means) or as an adult. My kids are (so far) not huge Disney fans (nor is my wife), so this may be something we can dodge. Harry Potter World, on the other hand, is on the list, once my daughter (1) is a little older. I’m perversely hoping the backlash against JK Rowling becomes so strong that people start boycotting those parks, so we can go when it’s much less crowded. I’m also wondering how long it will take Disney to start constructing a new park in a state that isn’t Florida.